My life is about growth.
Finding new ways to allow myself to grow is an important aspect of who I am.
One of the ways I encourage growth in my life is to learn how to deal with personal disagreements.
Blaming others is a wasteful action.
Because I want to live a productive life, I do not blame others for our disagreements.
Since I can only control my own thoughts and actions, I do not waste time or energy thinking about how I could change another person’s choices.
Recognizing the role I played in a disagreement is important.
If I have done something rash, said something hurtful, or neglected to be the best person I could have been, then I am at least partly responsible.
Taking ownership of my responsibility is a courageous action!
Looking within myself and honestly evaluating how I can become a better person is invaluable.
This self-evaluation process gives me an opportunity to grow.
The fact that I have a disagreement does not worry me.
The world is filled with a variety of different personalities, and because everyone has different experiences, it makes sense that there will be times when people disagree.
Learning how to move past disagreements in a mature and responsible way is what is important to me.
Because I am respectful, I do not put blame on other people.
Bitterness and grudges are not things I want in my life.
By letting go of these feelings, I allow myself to thrive.
How can you use self-reflection to honestly evaluate your role in a disagreement?
What have you learned from your disagreements with others?
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