Because my love adds joy and meaning to my life, I embrace it and keep it constant.
I do not allow silly arguments to question our foundation.
I openly communicate with my partner about my thoughts, feelings, and frustrations.
I let go of the need to hurt my spouse or to prove myself right and, instead, focus on simply expressing how the situation made me feel.
I always aim for understanding, not revenge.
I recognize that there are always at least two points of view in any conflict, and I take the time to listen to the other side.
I have let go of the need to have the last word and I am satisfied if we both feel that we have been heard, even if we haven’t yet reached an amicable solution.
I make it a point to affirm my partner’s value.
I also show that I am trustworthy by who I choose to confide in when we are at odds.
I choose to avoid gossip and, instead, focus on achieving peace through positive solutions.
I let the little things go.
Life is far more important than the way we squeeze the toothpaste tube or where we throw our socks.
I invest in our relationship by allowing my partner to be quirky and human, just like me!
What is your goal when you are discussing issues with your partner?
How do you allow your partner to feel heard when you are in conflict?
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